BE PROACTIVE~>

                         BEING PROACTIVE                                                               IF U LOOK AT THE DEFINITION OF PROACTIVE IT SAYS:~ (OF A PERSON OR ACTION) CREATING OR CONTROLLING A SITUATION RATHER  THAN JUST  RESPONDING  TO IT AFTER IT HAD HAPPENED THIS IS THE DEFINITION OF PROACTIVE~ NOW IF WE APPLY THIS CONCEPT IN OUR LIVES THEN THE BEST EXAMPLE WOULD BE  WHEN SOMEONE LASHES AT US IN RAGE OR MAKES UR FEEL INFERIOR IN AN ARGUEMENT OR SOMEONE USING OUR INSECURITIES AT US TO MAKES US INFERIOR TO THEM ARE EXAMPLES THAT HAPPEN TO US AND MOSTLY WE ALL REACT TO IT EITHER WITH A LOT OF ANGER , FRUSTRATION , AND RESENTMENT THAT WE REGRET AFTER THE INCIDENT OF HOW STUPID WE LOOKED LIKE NOW.....WE ALL AGREE THAT WHEN WE EXPERIENCE ...

                               BE PROACTIVE                                            THIS BOOK BEAUTIFULLY SAYS THAT THE THINGS THAT HAPPEN TO US IS THE OUTCOME OF OUR DECISIONS NOT OUR CONDITIONS SIMPLY....IT SAYS THAT THE ENVIRONMENT DOES NOT DECIDE WHAT U DO BUT WHAT HOW WE REACT TO IT DETERMINES OUR LIFE. AS WE KNOW WE DONT REMEBER THINGS VERBALLY THAT EASILY LIKE WHEN WE ARE IN CLASS THE TEACHER IS SPEAKING AND WE ARE JUST PASSIVELY LISTENING TO HER/HIM.  SO TU UNDERSTAND THIS BETTER.....LETS VISUALIZE THIS IMAGINE TWO CIRCLES, ONE BIG CIRCLE AND ANOTHER SMALLER CIRCLE  THE BIG CIRCLE IS THE "CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE" WHILE THE SMALL CIRCLE IS THE "CIRCLE OF CONTROL" NO MATTER HOW BIG THE "CIRCLE OF INFUENCE" MIGHT BE ALWAYS REMEBER IN THIS BIG CIRCLE HOW MUCH YOU CAN ACTUALLY CONTROL BE...

 SO HI MY FELLOW FREIND! I'M AADITSINH FROM XC TODAY I AM GOING TO TALK ABOUT THE TOPIC "BE PROACTIVE" FROM THE BOOK "7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE   PEOPLE" .   7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE WHAT THIS BOOK "SEVEN HABITS OF HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE"   THAT IS WRITTEN BY STEPHEN .R. COVEY TALKS ABOUT IS THAT "WE SEE THE WORLD IS ENTIRELY BASED ON OUR OWN  PERCEPTION". WE ALL WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND THE PATH THAT LEADS US THERE IS BY IDENTIFYING HABITS THAT HELPS US REACHING SUCCESS WHAT DO HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE HAVE?~ 1. BE PROACTIVE 2. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND 3. PUT FIRST THINGS FIRST 4. THINK WIN WIN 5. SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN BE UNDERSTOOD 6. SYNERGIZE 7. SHARPEN THE SAW STEPHEN COVEY SAYS IN THE BOOK THAT "THE WAY WE SEE THE PROBLEM IS THE PROBLEM" . HABIT 1-2-3 FOCUSES IN SELF MASTERY & MOVING FROM DEPENDANCE  TO INDEPENDANCE HABIT 4-5-6 FOCUSED ON ON DEVELOPING  TEAM WORK, COLLABORATION & COMMUNICAT...